Kemetic wisdom teachings: The root of disconnected relationships among black men

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Table of Contents

Conditioning men at an early age
Buying into hyper-masculinity is killing our boys and men
The divine feminine principle is practical and universal
What does Kemetic wisdom teachings have to do with men and sexuality?
Get unstuck from the hyper-masculine trap
The divine feminine principle is symbolically hidden in the bible

Disconnected relationships, rage and anger among black men have a hidden but common issue.  In the consciousness community, we have much knowledge about our African ancestors but little in the form of Kemetic wisdom teachings and how to apply them. Why are so many young men resorting to violence in too many of our communities? Why is hypertension so prevalent in the black community?

The easy answer is to blame white supremacy and racism. It’s real. But we CANNOT expect to change whites and make our problems go away!

We have to find ways to do that internally on all levels. That means personally, family, and community.

Why has all the “knowledge” we have accumulated not translated into widespread change in black communities? Yes, the system is stacked against us in many ways. Part of it is even though many conscious folk no longer are religious, they still hold on to their value system they got from religion.

For example, in religion, you could memorize a whole bunch of scriptures but that doesn’t mean the knowledge is applied in your life. As conscious folk we take in much knowledge, but for far too many it isn’t applied to their daily lives.

When I was religious, we used to say “pray about it!” In the conscious community, I hear “spread the knowledge.” They both are having the same effect in the black community. That means neither is bringing about change.

I don’t mean to imply that knowledge is not needed. What I am saying is we need to go to the next level. But how? We have to find creative solutions that will come only through our collective wisdom. The cure for what ails us in our communities will start to manifest when we truly get a grasp of the Kemetic wisdom teachings beyond simply memorizing the words and lines in books. What is the next level?

I want to use ancient Kemetic science principles to connect some dots that may not be so obvious on the surface. It’s about principles the science can teach. But also about the wisdom beyond the knowledge that can be gained.

Wisdom is the inner contemplation of knowledge. There is a direct link to lack of quality of life in the black community and lack of wisdom. Please don’t take that as an attack or put down of black people. It is an observation I will explain here.

In this post you will get a deeper understanding of the idea called the divine masculine and divine feminine principle that because of a lack of wisdom, negatively impacts men. In the Kemetic wisdom teachings, it is understanding the divine feminine principle as a “function” within the universe that will unlock many keys on many levels within the black experience.

By the end of the blog post, you will have the knowledge on how to practically apply the divine masculine and divine feminine principle in your life.

Conditioning men at an early age

Let’s connect this idea to men and sexuality. On the surface, it may seem disconnected, but let’s get deep as the ancestors would.

Why is it that men crave sex so much? This is one of those questions that has perplexed women through the centuries. There are all kinds of pop psychology that want to explain what seems to be an epidemic of men that only want sex and can’t be faithful.

This is not to make an excuse for men. It’s to get deeper into the issue of why men are disconnected from loving a woman deeply. Yes, there are many men that are able to love women deeply and faithfully. However, there is an epidemic of broken trust in the black community between men and women.

Men in any demographic have a shorter lifespan than women. It’s

Black life expectancy
The average life expectancy.

connected to the same reason many men are unable to form deep lasting relationships with women. It’s a quality of life issue that we could connect by understanding the ancient African sciences and Kemetic wisdom teachings beyond simple book knowledge.

The issue starts as young as pre-school age. I have been a middle school teacher for a number of years. I listen to the conversation of thirteen and fourteen-year-old boys and recognized they had already been trained to disconnect from the natural ability to connect meaningfully deeply to others.

I watched as they would take pictures of each other with their cellphones and the young men wouldn’t smile in the pictures. They wanted to look menacing and “hard.”

I would listen to how they would berate any young man that showed sadness or “having their feelings hurt.”

These are the symptoms at an early age, of men that grow up interested in a woman for only that one thing. It’s because of the disconnect.

Here are some of the training phrases that these young men got early from home:

Big boys don’t cry

man up!

Be a man!

How often do you hear mothers and fathers make those statements to young boys on a football field or a basketball court? Mothers and fathers if you make these statement to your young sons you are doing a disservice to them and to the women who will love them.

The middle school kids would reinforce these ideas with phrases like:

Grow some balls!

Don’t be a pussy!

Are you on your period?

Quit acting like a bitch!

What does this teach the young men about how women should be perceived?

This deal is, it ends up being harmful to men psychologically but it also negatively impacts women.

The main problem is not connecting to their feminine side. Don’t shut down on this last statement. With Kemetic wisom teachings, there is a deeper level to understand about the idea of the divine masculine and divine feminine.

This is where too many “conscious” folk have the book knowledge, but not the wisdom that comes from going within to apply the knowledge they get. it’s no different than we did as Christians. We would read bible scriptures just memorizing but not applying. Waiting for Jesus to magically do the work for us.

No personal introspection. No personal responsibility. No way to self-correct. That’s all accumulating knowledge can and has done in the black community.

Buying into hyper-masculinity is killing our boys and men

In our hyper-masculine society, men do not cultivate healthy ways to connect to their emotions. It amazes me that so many “conscious” people have knowledge about divine masculine and divine feminine principle but have no idea how it applies to everyday life.

It amazes me how many “conscious” folk post the training phrases on social media never considering the consequences in our communities, our relationships, and our families.

So much of the knowledge of the Kemetic wisdom teachings was about connecting to what we call today, the divine feminine principle. This concept is lost on most in modern society. They think “Divine Feminine” equates to being and acting like a female.

The divine feminine principle is practical and universal

Divine Feminine principle is a Metaphor used by the ancients to describe functionality within symbolism and myth. It is using the female womb to express a universal concept.

Functionally speaking the divine feminine principle as an ancient metaphor is like:

Divine feminine womb
A metaphor for divine feminine
  • Inside the womb,
  • a container, it’s dark,
  • has water,
  • and all contents in it are hidden from sight
  • and new creations are birthed from it.

It’s a symbolic representation. Not literal. It’s a metaphor to describe functionality. Describing what something is like, NOT what it is. Get a deeper understanding here. The concept is based in Kemetic wisdom teachings and ancient numerology.

The divine feminine principle is about connecting to the inner self. It’s universal for men and women to connect within. That’s the FUNCTION of the divine feminine principle.

But it’s ignorance of understanding and applying Kemetic wisdom teachings and concepts in modern times that is damaging relationships and keeping us boxed into a certain way of thinking and behaving. Divine masculine and divine feminine principle is just such a concept that is misused due to ignorance.

What does Kemetic wisdom teachings have to do with men and sexuality?

In modern society, for the most part, it’s unacceptable for a man to demonstrably connect to his emotions which are part of the divine feminine principle. The emotions that are acceptable for men to show publically are anger and rage.

For men and boys, anger and rage are usually the only emotions they can show without being ridiculed, chastised, or made fun of on some level by the people closest to them. but there are not many other ways that men are allowed to be emotional. EXCEPT, through sex.

Divine Feminine Principle
Men desire to connect to their divine feminine aspect

Most men don’t recognize the underlying reason for the sex drive in them, especially young men. In the younger formative years’ sexual gratification becomes one of the main driving forces in his life.

part of that is the drive to mate and procreate of course.

However, If he only recognizes the physical aspect as his source of joy he will not recognize the sensual inner connections that he can make with an intimate partner.
Sensuality is the inner emotional feelings one has with his/her partner during sex. It is connecting the divine feminine principle in both men and women in those moments. The sensual feelings become part of the bond of an emotionally mature individual.

But most men are stunted emotionally in our hyper-masculine modern society. As stated above, the phrases “man up,” or “be a man,” “don’t act like a pussy,” etc. are all well understood by the time a boy is an adolescent. They are exhortations to not feel what is within him.

They are commands to disconnect from his emotions and inner self; their divine feminine principle.

Through sex with his woman, a man can tap into the deeper aspects of his inner being, his divine feminine, if only for a few joyous moments and not be ridiculed for the inward emotional journey. Sadly, as a society, we don’t really explore that deep and powerful connection beyond sex because of religious hangups.


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As a man understand that the time has come for you to connect deeper within yourself. All the wisdom of the ages is in that inner space. The cures for our families, our children, and our communities will be found in that inner space, not the pages of a book. I’m not saying books and knowledge are not important. They are. But it should be painfully evident that knowledge is not enough based on the conditions in too many of our communities.

Our creative problem solving comes from the divine feminine principle. Contemplating the next move is the use of the divine feminine principle. It all happens within. Then through the divine masculine action is taken.

Get unstuck from the hyper-masculine trap

Brothers, don’t get stuck in the hyper-masculine trap of banning and disconnecting your emotions until you are between the thighs of the object of your desire.

Our ancestors through Kemetic wisdom teachings practiced balance in all phases of their life. They called it Maat. If you barricade yourself within a wall of the manly code of being unemotional then you will have the fate of most men in our society.

That fate is to die at a younger age than the female within your demographic. Brothers, there is a direct connection to the emotional quality of your life and your lifespan. If you don’t think that’s true then ask yourself why the average married man lives longer?

Answer: Because he can connect emotionally with the woman he loves and connect inwardly to himself. That doesn’t mean that one has to be married. Don’t get a marriage license confused with a commitment. All commitments to another human being are a choice we make and honor. When you are with her, honor that commitment with integrity. Marriage license or not.

I submit to you that men have a high sex drive because of the need to connect to their own inner divine feminine principle. The secret is; it’s not just the sex but the emotional expression that lights up the soul. When you orgasm it is a cosmic event. It is a high vibrational state of being. At that moment you have the closest connection to the source. We all crave that connection to the source. However, men are socialized to disconnect.

Through getting a deeper understanding of the Kemetic wisdom teachings and practice of Ma’at men will become more balanced in all aspects of their life. Black men have the lowest life expectancy than any other group in America!

Part of that is because in many ways we are the most abused when showing emotions in what is perceived as a weakness. Women are seen as the “weaker” sex. Women are “emotional.” I have witnessed many Facebook posts that call black men all sorts of names for crying in public when they are deeply hurt. Often times it is done by women. This has to change.

A much deeper understanding is that women are more in touch with their divine feminine principle because it has always been socially acceptable for them to be and not for men. It is less acceptable for her to show here divine masculine side.

She is seen as pushy, aggressive, manly, etc.

We can’t continue to circulate the “knowledge” but not know how to apply it. Lack of understanding the Kemetic wisdom teachings and connecting to the inner self on a regular basis is a prime reason that so many of our young men walk around with an anger that can’t be extinguished. It’s most likely a contributing factor to hypertension and high blood pressure that manifests in our older men.

The former explodes in acts of violence. The latter is a slow seething disconnected journey to death. At their root, both are manifestations of the same underlying issue. The root being disconnected from their inner self. The divine feminine principle.

This has got to change. As black men, we must recognize the Kemetic wisdom teachings and principles that underly our behaviors. We must do so for our own well being first and by default our women, families, and communities will be a beneficiary. Learning the Kemetic wisdom teachings will do this in a way that will free men and women from the hyper-masculine emotionally stunted male.

For a black woman, an inwardly connected aware and enlightened man will be a better partner. As a black man, your life, our families, and our communities depend on gaining and connecting to the inner wisdom of the divine feminine. As a society, we can no longer afford to live disconnected.

The divine feminine principle is symbolically hidden in the bible

Funny thing is, as Christians the idea of connecting to the divine feminine was imparted to us but we didn’t have the wisdom to go deeper. Ephesians 6:2-3, “Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise; That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.” Exchange father and mother with masculine and feminine.

Honoring your mother and father is a good principle to live by. But in the scope of recognizing your own godhood how would that make you live longer? But being balanced and practicing maat would be a practical application that would make you live longer.

It takes on a deeper meaning beyond the literal way we were taught the Bible. It is a remnant of Kemetic wisdom teachings hidden with literalism.

As long as we have:

  1. emotionally disconnected men,
  2. disconnected knowledge not applicable in our daily lives

“Know thyself” is a command to connect to the divine feminine principle within. Balck men of gotten caught up in a hyper-masculine trap that is manifesting our destruction in many ways. Be you man or woman, the power to change the world, OUR world, will be birthed from honoring the divine feminine principle. The creative solutions will come from within.

As men we must learn to connect with our inner vibrational world. That is done through the heart and emotions. We can’t continue to live disconnected and hope our relationships and communities will thrive. It will take courage to go against the tide of hyper-masculine images that we are bombarded with in the media. It is necessary. It is through the wisdom of our ancestors that will guide us out of the wilderness.

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Khemetic Spirituality: Why you should never feel guilty about orgasm


Have you ever felt guilt or shame about sex? Is an orgasm a guilty pleasure? You have been taught to feel “dirty” and shameful around sexuality because the Greeks and Romans perverted beautiful ancient Khemetic teachings.

They became twisted Christian doctrines that mangle self-esteem and crush self-acceptance, especially for women! An orgasm is more than an emotional and physical climax. It is one of the most highly charged states of being on the physical plane.

An orgasm through sexual energy is the most powerful creative force on the planet. If you don’t believe that consider the very real and scientifically proven event of the human species being able to reproduce itself. In other words, children are created and come into the world through an orgasmic state of being.

Sexual orgasm is a creative force

That alone should be evidence enough to know that as a human you are an extremely powerful creator.

Part of our Christian heritage is a very negative view of sexuality. Where did the negativity originate?

It originated from the philosophy of the Greek Gnostics. Christianity developed many of its doctrines based on Gnostic ideas or combatting Gnostic ideas.

How did sex come to be seen as a sin?

The Gnostics were a religious sect that believed gnosis was the way to “salvation.” To know thyself allowed gnostic men and women to truly know God. Just like their African teachers, the Gnostics didn’t need an intermediary like the church, a bishop, a pastor, rabbi, imam or anyone to make that divine connection. The fact that an intermediary wasn’t needed became an issue at the outset of the Catholic Church.

The belief of not needing an intermediary obviously made gnostics a threat to the developing Christian church. For the Gnostics, gnosis was gained via a personified concept of wisdom they called Sophia. This same idea was

Wisdom teachings
Wisdom teaching of Egypt was called Sophia by the Greeks (click cover to purchase book)

taught to the Greeks by the ancient Egyptians and they called it Ma’at. Gnosis was one of the beliefs that Christianity fought against during its developmental phase in the first four centuries of the Common Era (CE).

Gnosis can be defined as simply “knowing.” In other words, it is intuitively recognizing your connection to the universe from within. For the ancient Egyptians and later the Gnostics, “Knowing” is the foundation of gaining all wisdom.

Through a fundamentally negative view of the physical world, the Gnostics believed the world had to much pain and suffering and therefore something must be wrong with creation.

They read ancient Egyptian writings (click cover to purchase book)

The gnostics created a second level of creators (called Aeons) that in their estimation was so far removed from the source they became “flawed.” That meant their creations were flawed. Their concept would be analogous to how you would use a copy machine and a copy, of a copy, of a copy, would lose clarity.

Because the world we live in and humanity was created from the Aeons the Gnostics believed humanity was flawed. Anything that causes us to remain attached to earthly things serves to keep us in “enslavement” to these flawed lower cosmic rulers.

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Well, an orgasm would top the list in this belief system because an orgasm is so damn good it has to be bad! You enjoy sex and orgasms, therefore you would stay attached to your physical experience. You would obviously want to keep having sex!

The second and most egregious occurrence through sex was to have a child, more importantly, a new soul, be born into this world.

Because of the hierarchy and power structure, the Catholic Church was creating at the time, Christian Fathers fought against the belief of a different level of creators. The gnostics parted ways from their original Egyptian teachers with the dual god philosophy. The Christians didn’t agree with the dual god philosophy but kept the belief of flawed humanity as expressed in the Adam and Eve myth.

One God one Bishop became Church doctrine because Church hierarchy needed to mimic heavenly hierarchy (click cover to purchase book)

The belief of a “flawed” humanity, through Adam and Eve, became politically expedient when there came a need to have a savior of the world. These beliefs spawned Christian doctrines like the FallOriginal sin, and Total Depravity.

Ancient Africans had no sexual hangups

As stated earlier the gnostic philosophy originated from their Egyptian teachers. However, the gnostics slid off the path of the original teachings and because of politics Christians stayed off the path in creating their doctrines and dogma. The belief of being trapped originated with ancient Egypt but was misunderstood and misinterpreted by the Greek Gnostics and Roman Church fathers.

Ancient Egyptians believed in duality as a condition that negated oneness or unity that was unknowable directly by the human mind but was evident through creation (the Universe) that emanated from it.


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They saw spirit as a “choice” to descend into matter and experience the physical. While in the physical spirit was “trapped” or held in by a force of NeTCheR or NaTuRe the Egyptians called S.T. (SeT). Set was the universal force of opposition in nature. The Gnostics called themselves the children of Seth(S.T.). In other words, the Gnostics believed they were spiritual beings trapped in the physical body by the force of Set.

Based on their twisting and misunderstanding of the Neter or force of Set enjoyment of physical pleasure became a deterrent for salvation. Salvation was based on a completely different set of principles in ancient Egyptian cosmology. Salvation is not part of the scope of this blog post. However, you can click here to learn the truth about salvation. The Egyptian view of salvation is one of the most freeing concepts you will gain from the Khemetic cosmology.

The original teaching of salvation is so empowering and uplifting! You would be absolutely shocked at who was originally considered “saved.” The Christians changed salvation to something that keeps you bathed in uncertainty and in a constant state of anxiety. Again partly based on misunderstanding and partly based on pushing an agenda of fear.

Our western puritanical views about sex developed from these ancient religious philosophies separating spirit from body. We don’t even consider how or why they came to be, we just follow the beliefs on “faith.”

The ancient Africans or any indigenous people for that matter, had no such hangups about sexuality nor being physical as the Gnostics and later the Christians did.

You can transmute orgasm energy

One of the creation stories you don’t hear about of ancient Egypt is that Atum created the universe by masturbating and ejaculating at orgasm. The orgasm in the myth is “symbolic” of the state of being needed to create anything.

Recognize that an orgasm is a vibrational frequency. According to the ancient Egyptians, your essence is vibration.

What must vocal cords do to create sound or a Word? Vibrate!

Ancient Egypt expressed this idea using “the Word” as a metaphor for vibration. You are “the Word made flesh.”

An orgasm is literally an explosion of energy moving through your physical body and your etheric (energetic) body at that instant. It is literally a vibration within you that is translated as joy and ecstasy within our physical expression.

The universe was created from within Atum through the sexual energy and vibration of joy. As a human being, you have that same ability. Remember you are the creator in human form. Sex is a natural process that we don’t consider on a deep level.

What most people don’t know that the ancients did is sexual energy can be “transmuted” and used to manifest ANYTHING you want to bring into the physical world. This is deeper metaphysical knowledge. But most of us are stuck on the ground floor of this knowledge because of negative religious conditioning surrounding our sexuality.

The ancients knew the power of sexual energy. One of the casualties of our religious beliefs is that we have been taught to have so much guilt about our sexuality.

We have been taught to confine sex as good only in the context of marriage or a man and a woman. Quite frankly religious ideas about sexuality are a bunch of crap! The Christian ideas on sexuality were created by spiritual idiots and we followed them blindly!

Both sexes are shamed on some level about sexuality. But women, in particular, are shamed. Women are taught that they should be virgins and save themselves for marriage. Women are judged as “wifey” material or not based on the newness of their vagina (number of sexual partners). Women have also been taught to gratify the male sexually even at their own expense!

Religion says to never masturbate, it’s a sin. But the original African teachings say God (Atum) had to masturbate to produce joy within itself in order to create! You can find heaven without ever having to die when you truly understand what it is from the ancients paradigm.

We only see the myths as just stories. But they in fact relay very deep metaphysical and psychological knowledge.

Gnostics and Christians perverted the original teachings

The control of our sexuality by religion is a deterrent for being creators. It comes down to energy and vibration. If your beliefs about sex created guilt within you then you NEGATE the ability to transmute that energy into positive creative power.

You can literally make sounds during sex to “channel” or direct the energy into specific directions of your choosing. Sex is one of the most powerful manifestation tools you can use. But if you believe it is a sin it can be one of the most powerful tools to negate your own creative powers. The sexual energy can “back up” or be energy blockages that cause illness (fibroids) and sexual dysfunction.

I want to make it clear this creative energy is not confined to heterosexual partners. When I am speaking of creating, it’s not just about creating a child. It is creating and manifesting ANYTHING into the physical world.

This is just the tip of the iceberg. Explore this idea. You will have to do so unencumbered by religious conditioning. The idea of exploring life without the rules that negate experience was definitely an Egyptian belief. They taught that in order for the physical Ka to connect to the higher Ka it must be able to discern what is true (pure) from what is untrue (impure).

This is one of the ideas that the Gnostics and Christians misunderstood (click cover to purchase book)

It will take a change in beliefs to be free of the puritanical constraints that we all have been taught. You should never again feel guilty about sex and orgasms.

The Greek Gnostic and Romans perverted the original teachings. Those perverted ideas have shaped our beliefs around sexuality for almost 2,000 years.

But now you know, or at least of a foundation, you can research these ideas to loosen the mental grip of guilt and shame surrounding your sexuality from Christian indoctrination. You should never feel guilty about having human emotions and yearnings. Not EVER!